If a widow were asked how much she misses her husband, she might not stop crying, and perhaps she won’t remember the bad times. All she’ll want to recall is his good side. The thought of not seeing him again is sorrow, pain, and agony enough. She would have forgiven him, and instead, she misses him, especially if he had
As a Muslimah in the 21st century, you have the power to be whatever you want to be without compromising your faith, dignity, and pride. Your goals and aspirations can align with great opportunities and achievements, as long as they don’t contradict your values. To achieve success, it starts with you. It begins with what matters most to you and
Life is a trial, and marriage can be a test of faith. What’s crucial is to marry someone who fears Allah. Unfortunately, the fear of Allah we preach to our sisters isn’t always reflected in some of our men. These sisters often end up questioning the faith we encouraged them to have. Could it be that some men pretend to
Remembering your ‘why’ in marriage is crucial. It’s essential to support each other through life’s ups and downs, ensuring neither partner becomes weak. When trials come, like infertility struggles, your spouse might feel overwhelmed. As a supportive partner, stand tall, reminding them of Allah’s mercy and that joy is on the horizon. Trials can shake faith, causing us to drift
A couple faced a daunting challenge when the husband suffered a stroke, followed by the wife. This predicament took a toll on their lives, especially the wife, who became the breadwinner after her husband’s health and financial struggles. Now, with her own health compromised, their future looks uncertain. Imagine the suffering this family might endure, especially if their children are
One of the key elements that gives marriage a lasting edge is when both couples make a conscious effort to avoid intentionally hurting the one they love. A union between two lovely people not only strengthens their love but also creates a lasting bond. However, when challenges arise, and one party is hurt due to the other’s behavior or character,
Choose Well, Dear: The Foundation of a Blessed Family The person you choose to marry plays a significant role in shaping the future of your children and the kind of family you build. Compatibility in Deen and character is not just important – it’s a deal-breaker. You want a partner who shares your values and aspirations, especially when it comes
You don’t realize the weight of your own struggles until you see others who’ve faced challenges so daunting they’ve lost their eyesight to tears. Yesterday, I caught a glimpse of a woman wiping away her tears without her noticing me. I was torn between approaching her and respecting her privacy, knowing that sometimes inquisitiveness can be hurtful. Often, people just
Allah, the Most Merciful, is patient and forgives us when we call upon Him, acknowledging our enormous sins. Allah’s love is evident when He reminds us that we still have the opportunity to make amends and changes in aspects of our lives that displease Him. He assures us of His Rahma, that as long as we are alive, we can
Choosing the right marriage partner is a decision that can profoundly impact various aspects of your life. Not only does it help sustain the longevity of the marriage, but it also plays a significant role in maintaining a strong relationship within the community and, most importantly, in raising well-adjusted and happy children. The person you choose as your partner is
It was an exciting visitation yesterday Tuesday, 26th August, 2025 as esteemed brothers and sisters from different states converged at UCH Central Mosque and then visited University College Hospital, Ibadan under the umbrella of our enviable MajmolQueen Charitable Foundation. The team was warmly welcomed by the management of UCH. Welfare packages worthy millions of naira were distributed to fifty mothers
The one who strengthens the ties of kinship is loved by Allah, and anyone who severs them may face Allah’s wrath. In fact, severing kinship ties can lead to losing paradise, as mentioned in the hadith. I am deeply grateful to my family, the Ashimites, for their unwavering support and presence. I extend my heartfelt thanks to my uncle and
