Love is not about finding someone who will never hurt you, because no human being is perfect and relationships can sometimes bring disappointment and pain.
But true love is about finding someone who recognizes the hurt they caused, takes responsibility for it, sincerely seeks forgiveness, and is willing to do the work necessary to heal what was broken.
It is about finding someone who does not simply say, “That is who I am,” but cares enough to change, grow, and become more careful with your heart.
Love is not the absence of mistakes. It is the presence of sincerity, accountability, repentance, forgiveness, and genuine effort to make things right.
However, love should never be used as an excuse to repeatedly tolerate abuse, betrayal, or deliberate harm. Healing can only begin when the person who caused the wound truly acknowledges it and is committed to changing.
Sometimes, love is not about finding someone who never hurts you. It is about finding someone who, after hurting you, is humble enough to say, “I was wrong,” sincere enough to change, and committed enough to help heal what they broke.
Umm Sumayyah Mai
Love is not about finding someone who will never hurt you, because no human being is perfect and relationships can sometimes bring disappointment and pain.
But true love is about finding someone who recognizes the hurt they caused, takes responsibility for it, sincerely seeks forgiveness, and is willing to do the work necessary to heal what was broken.
It is about finding someone who does not simply say, “That is who I am,” but cares enough to change, grow, and become more careful with your heart.
Love is not the absence of mistakes. It is the presence of sincerity, accountability, repentance, forgiveness, and genuine effort to make things right.
However, love should never be used as an excuse to repeatedly tolerate abuse, betrayal, or deliberate harm. Healing can only begin when the person who caused the wound truly acknowledges it and is committed to changing.
Sometimes, love is not about finding someone who never hurts you. It is about finding someone who, after hurting you, is humble enough to say, “I was wrong,” sincere enough to change, and committed enough to help heal what they broke.
Umm Sumayyah Mai
