Perhaps you do not see them. You do not see men who cry alone whilst their beards become soaked with tears. Most men will not tell you what they are going through in the hands of their wives. What baffles them most when asked is the ingrate attitude of their wives. “My wife always claims that l didn’t do enough without appreciating the little l did. l got blamed all the time despite the stress l go through every single day to put food on my family’s table,” I say, may Allah reward your sacrifices. Do not be tired of doing your part and l pray Allah grants you enormous patience like that of Umar Ibn Khattab. Your success is granted bi’thiniLlaah!
Umm Sumayyah Mai