Choose Well, Dear: The Foundation of a Blessed Family
The person you choose to marry plays a significant role in shaping the future of your children and the kind of family you build. Compatibility in Deen and character is not just important – it’s a deal-breaker. You want a partner who shares your values and aspirations, especially when it comes to nurturing your children.
Imagine wanting to raise a child who memorizes the Quran, but your partner struggles to pray five times a day. Or envision wanting your daughter to wear the hijab with pride, but your partner is indifferent or even opposed to it. Such differences can create deep-seated hurt and regret, hindering your ability to achieve your goals as a parent.
When choosing a life partner, consider whether they will support your efforts to raise children who are strong in their faith and morals. A compatible partner can be a source of strength and encouragement, while an incompatible one can be a source of stress and conflict.
Don’t settle for anything less than a partner who shares your commitment to your faith and values. The benefits of a harmonious and like-minded partnership far outweigh the risks of potential disagreements and conflicts. By choosing wisely, you’ll lay the foundation for a blessed family and a brighter future for your children.
– Umm Sumayyah Mai
