Humans are born with flaws and shortcomings, and we all carry them. There’s no perfect being; we make mistakes and repent. However, when it comes to marriage, it’s crucial to know your partner’s background and antecedents.
Someone asked with apprehension, How can I identify someone with the fear of Allah? This question can be challenging to answer, as many people present themselves in a certain way. Only Allah knows the truth about someone’s character – whether their public and private lives align with truthfulness.
Marriage involves more than just good impressions. To truly know someone, consider their associations, relationships, and interactions. The Prophet emphasized the importance of knowing a person’s character by observing how they interact with others, such as business associates, travel companions, and close friends.
When evaluating a potential partner, be diligent in your prayers and seek guidance from your parents and sincere advisors. Ask yourself: Is this person truly good for me, despite any red flags? May Allah assist you in making wise decisions.
– Umm Sumayyah Mai
