Beyond the emotions of letting go of someone you once loved, the struggles of getting it right the second time can be overwhelming. Watching a sister share her recent divorce struggles on YouTube, I felt her pain deeply.
People choose divorce for their own reasons, and it’s not our place to question them. While I advocate for patience and perseverance when issues can be resolved, I’ve seen those grateful for their decision to leave and those who wish they hadn’t. What’s even more heartbreaking are those whose new marriages don’t work out either. May Allah protect us.
Know that Allah is aware of your plight; don’t stop asking Him for the best. If reconciliation is possible and you can forgive each other, your sacrifice will be rewarded in both worlds. However, prioritize your safety if you’re in an abusive marriage. Let’s emphasize the importance of emotional kindness, especially for our men. May Allah ease this sister’s affairs and grant her the best.
– Umm Sumayyah Mai
