Beyond the emotions of letting go of someone you once loved, the struggles of getting it right the second time can be overwhelming. Watching a sister share her recent divorce struggles on YouTube, I felt her pain deeply. People choose divorce for their own reasons, and it’s not our place to question them. While I advocate for patience and perseverance
I was having a conversation with someone today, and as we talked, she mentioned her father passed away when she was 10. I shared that mine was 11. This exchange made us reflect deeply on our time in this world. While these humble men have long gone, we humans seldom remember our own mortality and the accountability that awaits us.
Humans are born with flaws and shortcomings, and we all carry them. There’s no perfect being; we make mistakes and repent. However, when it comes to marriage, it’s crucial to know your partner’s background and antecedents. Someone asked with apprehension, How can I identify someone with the fear of Allah? This question can be challenging to answer, as many people
I’m still reflecting on our Shaykh Al-kutubi’s recent video on marriage and the fear of Allah. He emphasized the importance for young sisters to prioritize a righteous, God-fearing partner over someone who appears knowledgeable but lacks Taqwa. While knowledge is essential, it’s crucial to look beyond a man’s eloquence or fluency in Arabic and or the Quran. Before marriage, investigate
Life is a trial, and marriage can be a test of faith. What’s crucial is to marry someone who fears Allah. Unfortunately, the fear of Allah we preach to our sisters isn’t always reflected in some of our men. These sisters often end up questioning the faith we encouraged them to have. Could it be that some men pretend to
If a widow were asked how much she misses her husband, she might not stop crying, and perhaps she won’t remember the bad times. All she’ll want to recall is his good side. The thought of not seeing him again is sorrow, pain, and agony enough. She would have forgiven him, and instead, she misses him, especially if he had
As a Muslimah in the 21st century, you have the power to be whatever you want to be without compromising your faith, dignity, and pride. Your goals and aspirations can align with great opportunities and achievements, as long as they don’t contradict your values. To achieve success, it starts with you. It begins with what matters most to you and
Life is a trial, and marriage can be a test of faith. What’s crucial is to marry someone who fears Allah. Unfortunately, the fear of Allah we preach to our sisters isn’t always reflected in some of our men. These sisters often end up questioning the faith we encouraged them to have. Could it be that some men pretend to
Remembering your ‘why’ in marriage is crucial. It’s essential to support each other through life’s ups and downs, ensuring neither partner becomes weak. When trials come, like infertility struggles, your spouse might feel overwhelmed. As a supportive partner, stand tall, reminding them of Allah’s mercy and that joy is on the horizon. Trials can shake faith, causing us to drift
A couple faced a daunting challenge when the husband suffered a stroke, followed by the wife. This predicament took a toll on their lives, especially the wife, who became the breadwinner after her husband’s health and financial struggles. Now, with her own health compromised, their future looks uncertain. Imagine the suffering this family might endure, especially if their children are
One of the key elements that gives marriage a lasting edge is when both couples make a conscious effort to avoid intentionally hurting the one they love. A union between two lovely people not only strengthens their love but also creates a lasting bond. However, when challenges arise, and one party is hurt due to the other’s behavior or character,
Choose Well, Dear: The Foundation of a Blessed Family The person you choose to marry plays a significant role in shaping the future of your children and the kind of family you build. Compatibility in Deen and character is not just important – it’s a deal-breaker. You want a partner who shares your values and aspirations, especially when it comes
