Be Mindful of Your Media Consumption

Oh, Young Sisters!

Be mindful of your media consumption to protect your faith, values, and well-being. Remember, dear sisters, you are the future leaders and representatives of our Ummah!

Be cautious of whom you follow on social media, and don’t be carried away by the number of followers you’ve acquired. Fame can be a trial (fitnah) for you, and pursuing it may endanger your Deen and Aqeedah.

Listen when corrected, and avoid arrogance and pride. Uphold the flag of Islam with love, pride, and dignity. Don’t follow the crowd; instead, be firm and steadfast.

Seek beneficial knowledge that illuminates your path and guides you. Learn how to speak, when to speak, and be mindful of your words.

May Allah guide and protect you all.

 

Your sister,

Umm Sumayyah Mai

Reflection on Motherhood,

As I reflect on motherhood, I think of those mothers who fast and pray fervently for their children’s success. I’m sure there are many women like that. One valuable lesson my mother taught us was to mention our children’s names during prayers. I’ve made it a habit to do so, asking Allah to protect them from harm.

As parents, we face challenges while raising our children. It’s essential to have open and honest conversations with them. Sometimes, we need to be firm and direct; other times, diplomatic and gentle. Many parents have found success with both approaches.

Children should be taught to respect their parents and learn manners and accountability. Unfortunately, many young lives are affected by peer pressure. As parents, it’s our responsibility to guide them correctly. These children are novices who deserve proper guidance.

We should encourage them, saying, ‘I believe in you, and you can do better.’ Let’s instill confidence in them, reminding them that they’re capable of achieving anything. With determination and faith, they’ll succeed, bihi”dhiniLlaah!

Umm Sumayyah Mai